1.
Spring: The Northern Kentucky Dialogue
Series

The idea of
organizing this dialogue series began when I met Roula Allouch, a young Muslim
woman from Northern Kentucky, during the fall, 2007 Cincinnati dialogue. I
asked Roula and Faith Kemper, a long-time friend of Franciscans Network who also
lives in Northern Kentucky, about their interest in doing a dialogue series over
in the Bluegrass. Both of them responded enthusiastically to the idea and the
three of us began planning for a spring series.
Meanwhile, in
November, 2007 the Education Commission at Mother of God Church in Covington had
hosted a successful talk on Islam by Shakila Ahmad of the Islamic Center of
Greater Cincinnati (ICGC). I called Paul Miller, the chairperson of the
Education Commission, to ask if they would be interested in learning more about
Islam and he responded positively. He and the pastor, Fr. Ray Hartman, agreed
with our plan to use Mother of God as the host site for the series. We then
began to do more detailed planning, including publicity, and Roula spoke with
the Muslims who gather in Florence to enlist their participation.
The Northern
Kentucky dialogue began on April 6 with an introductory talk on Islam given by
Roula and then continued on each Tuesday evening during April. The format for
the four dialogue sessions followed the pattern we had used successfully in the
fall series: two brief sharings, from a Christian and a Muslim, on the topic for
the evening and then small group dialogue with everyone having an opportunity to
talk and to listen. The first evening's topic was on our faith practices,
particularly our personal practices; the other topics, as requested by the
participants through a survey taken the first evening were: prophets and
messengers (what Muhammed and Jesus mean to us); women (their role and position
in our faiths); and faith and culture (how we live our faiths in the midst of
American society). As we had done in the fall, we also included tours of two
worship spaces: on April 22 we met at the Clifton mosque and received an
insightful tour from Karen Dabdoub of the Council on American-Islamic Relations
(CAIR) and on April 29 Fr. Ray gave us an informative tour of the magnificent
church at Mother of God. The Muslims in the group were absolutely stunned by
the stained glass windows depicting the life of Mary and we all enjoyed sharing
this moment in the warm evening light; the reverence in which we both hold Mary
is a beautiful connecting point between our faiths.
The dialogue was
attended by a total of almost 70 people, with about 40 attending on any
particular evening. Most were Mother of God parishioners, but many came from
other parishes in Northern Kentucky. Here are some of the comments from the
evaluations in response to the question, "What aspects of our dialogue series
did you like best, appreciate, benefit from?"
 | "Simply
getting to know people better. Sharing faith practices in small groups
brought it to a real level. I felt that I was dealing with real people, not
just a Muslim or a Christian." |
 | "The
openness of people to listen with an open mind and answer with an open
heart. I am so thankful for the Muslims for answering my questions and for
showing such sincere interest in my faith tradition." |
 | "The direct
contact and opportunity to talk with Muslims." |
 | "I enjoyed
every aspect truly. I loved the wonderful conversations I had at the round
tables at the end of the sessions. The tone overall was friendly,
respectful, and warm." |
 | "The small
group discussions: very good, warm conversations." |
 | "Hearing
from the Muslim speakers. Each session I learned more about the religion
and I have learned to respect it. I also learned how much we are alike." |
2.
Ongoing Education
During
the late spring there were two events in which I was able to participate that
added significantly to my own understanding of Islam and the issues facing
modern Muslims.
In May I attended
a day-long seminar at the Islamic Center of Greater Toledo entitled "Culturally
Appropriate Care of the Muslim Patient". While this seminar was directly
applicable to my position at the College of Mount St. Joseph, where I teach
nursing, it also offered an excellent opportunity to talk with Muslims about how
their faith impacts their choices and experience in healthcare.
In June, I was
able to go to Chicago to participate in a summer session at the Catholic
Theological Union. The week-long course, entitled "Islam and Women" was taught
by Syafaatun Almirzanah, chair of the theology department at the State Islamic
University in Yogyakarya, Indonesia. It was a unique opportunity to immerse
myself in issues related to feminism and Islam, in the company of a pioneering
Muslim theologian and an appreciative group of Muslim and Christian students.
3.
Summertime Activities
In the summer we
organized an interfaith picnic with the help of CAIR and the Islamic Center (ICGC).
About 40 people came on a hot July Saturday, to rest and visit in the coolness
of the Center's gymnasium. Before dinner, two of the young Muslim girls recited
the opening Sura (chapter) of the Quran. The 7-year-old recited in Arabic, by
memory, and then her older sister shared an English translation. It was
beautifully done and they were proud to share their Scripture with us. I had
prepared a printed version of a passage from the New Testament: Luke 1, 46-55,
the Magnificat. I picked this prayer because I know that Muslims have a high
regard for Mary, as mother of the prophet Jesus, and that they could readily
identify with the message in those verses. My plan was to have the Christians
pray it together aloud. I think I even said, "Alright, now we'll pray this
together", thinking that only the Christians would join in with me. But as we
began, the Muslims all joined in with no hesitation! As I realized what was
happening, the prayer got even more beautiful for me: we were all, Muslim and
Christian, praising God, the One who keeps the promise made "to Abraham and his
children forever".
Toward the end of
the evening one of my Muslim friends and I were talking and he said, "I want to
get one of those red-word Bibles". At first I was puzzled and then I grinned.
"Do you mean a red-letter edition, where the words of Jesus are printed in
red?" "Yes!" he replied. As we talked, it was clear to me that he wanted to
read more about what Jesus had said in our Scripture, that he was curious to
know what was there and he figured that we (Christians) might have some insight
into Jesus, since he is "our" prophet. I told him where he might find such a
Bible and then I joked, "Maybe I should do a Bible study for Muslims!" My
friend looked right back at me and said, "I think a lot of Muslims would be
interested in that."
In August, I was
honored to receive the Inclusion Award from the Cincinnati Islamic Center at
their annual pre-Ramadan dinner, in recognition of the work that we have done in
the dialogue efforts thus far.
4.
Autumn
As shown in this
report, we have used many avenues for educating one another and building our
relationships
as people of faith. In November we tried an approach based on the "Five
Pillars" of Islam that worked very well. Christ Church (Episcopal) Cathedral,
in downtown Cincinnati, had invited us to organize this series for their Sunday
adult education time. In consultation with our Muslim friends, we decided to
use the three Sundays to briefly present the Five Pillars along with some
personal sharing about their impact. I invited 3 different Muslim speakers:
Roula Allouch, whose parents are of Syrian background, to share about the daily
& ritual prayers and the profession of faith; Rashid Mumin, a young
African-American man, to talk about fasting during Ramadan and zakat
(almsgiving); and Imran and Sara Merchant, who are of Indian and Cuban
background to talk about the pilgrimage to Mecca, which they had been on just a
few years ago. The speakers each brought their own wonderful ideas and
testimony and engaged in lively dialogue with the audience, which was three
times its normal Sunday-school size.
Finally, in the
late fall, we are just now starting our first Interfaith Book Club. A dozen of
us are meeting once a month at a local Panera restaurant and have picked The
Tent of Abraham as our first book.
Summary
Looking forward
to 2009, I will be sharing with the Episcopal women's group, the Society of the
Companions of the Holy Cross in February and am scheduled to present a workshop
on our efforts to the national conference of the Federation of Christian
Ministries in Columbus this summer. We are also talking with several area
congregations about possible Muslim-Christian series to be organized in the
spring and fall.
The
Muslim-Christian efforts that Franciscans Network has organized since February
2007 have touched hundreds of people in the Tristate area. Those involved have
grown in their understanding of the other and in genuine relationships. Both I
and my wife Julie, with whom I share the Advancement Coordinator
responsibilities, have been deeply touched by this experience. Faith and hope
have deepened as I have discovered Islam and appreciated the commonalities we
share through our belief in the One God. I look forward to 2009 and to extending
these opportunities for growth to others.
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